On a more serious note, being the wife, girlfriend (or boyfriend even) of a tranny isn't always easy. We do put you through it and dare I say it, the trans stuff is here to stay. Only your partner can tell you how far is far enough. Maybe he'll go a little 'kid in a sweetshop' and want to dress nearly all of the time (for a bit), maybe he'll have a quiet spell and you'll think it's all stopped. Maybe he'll want to go out.
Do you have to get involved? No, not if you don't want to. You don't have to see him dressed up and you don't have to go out or do anything you don't want to. But what if you did? Would it be that bad? At least you'd know what he was up to LOL.
Being able to talk about it really helps. No, really it does. It's more about sharing what's going on between you and if you buy your tranny partner some small item - a lippy or a bracelet - or let them know you'll be out until 6pm ("Make sure you're in boy mode when I come back.... and don't forget to Hoover!"), chances are they will be very grateful.
If you'd like a bit of help, maybe to find out how other people like you deal with it, or maybe just someone to talk to; there are a growing number of partner forums and web sites out there. These are but a few:
- Help! My Husband is a Crossdresser
What is says on the tin! :-) Oh, and from another perspective.
- Angel and Princess
A UK blog by Laura Newman. It would be unfair for me to say "a wife's perspective" on the whole trans thing as it wouldn't do Laura's blog justice.
- The Crossdresser's Wife
An American blog written by a rather witty lady. The ups and downs of living with hubby who's trans.